Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by Piero on January 04, 2002 at 17:54:38: Previous Next
Hey Guys, I think that my long hair is not working to catch chicks as it usually did a couple of years ago....
I am an Italian guy in the early 20's and my long hair looks very healthy, silky and decent.. same as before, but it seems that girls aren't as interested about my long hair as it was just in 1999, it is very difficult for me to find a girl who is as interested in me anymore. Actually I've forgotten already what does it feels to be in a public place and see how girls start looking at me and flirting.
Some girl recommended me to cut my hair very short and spike it....
should I do that?
Im thinking seriously about it....
DOes anyone wanna talk about this?
Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by Santiago on January 04, 2002 at 19:48:06: Previous Next
In Reply to: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY) posted by Piero on January 04, 2002 at 17:54:38:
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: Hey Guys, I think that my long hair is not working to catch chicks as it usually did a couple of years ago....
: I am an Italian guy in the early 20's and my long hair looks very healthy, silky and decent.. same as before, but it seems that girls aren't as interested about my long hair as it was just in 1999, it is very difficult for me to find a girl who is as interested in me anymore. Actually I've forgotten already what does it feels to be in a public place and see how girls start looking at me and flirting.
: Some girl recommended me to cut my hair very short and spike it....
: should I do that?
: Im thinking seriously about it....
: DOes anyone wanna talk about this?
Ma che sei matto!!!!! Non devi tagliare i capelli mai!!!
Don't cut your hair for anything in the world, you'll regret it later. Spiked hair fashion will go away, and you'll have to go all over the whole thing again. If you haeve long hair, it should be because its part of you. When long hair comes in again you'll be already there. Don't let OTHERS shape YOU.
Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by TonawandaDude on January 04, 2002 at 20:08:06: Previous Next
In Reply to: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY) posted by Piero on January 04, 2002 at 17:54:38:
NO>NO>NO>NO>NO>NO>NO>NO>NO>NO DO NOT GET YOUR HAIRCUT - EVER AGAIN.
IN ADDITION: DO NOT GET YOUR HAIR CUT , BEEN THERE DONE THAT - I WILL
NEVER MAKE THAT MISTAKE AGAIN.............NEITHER SHOULD YOU.
What I have found out is that if they are not interested in you because of your hair, and you get your mane cut, they will never respect you in the way that you want, as they will figure that you will be "wrapped around" their "little finger", and not be your own man.
Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by Carlos on January 04, 2002 at 20:54:59: Previous Next
In Reply to: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY) posted by Piero on January 04, 2002 at 17:54:38:
Hey Piero:
I know how you feel on this one. I'm said to be a good looking Italian guy too; or I was good looking...I too used to have girls flirt with me in public places and such but now that i've grown my hair out I'm having the same trouble as you. I can't find a girl who will accept my hair! I can't stand going to bars/clubs b/c girls just aren't digging the long hair. I know people on this board say. "If someone is going to judge you on your hair, they're not worth it." I followed these words in the past, but now it's getting beyond frustrating. Where are these girls who like longhairs hiding!? Seriously? I live in a somewhat big city and go to the clubs alot and can't find these girls. Ugghhh. Anyway, I think it shows I'm a true longhair because after 2 years of not having a girl I still continue to keep the hair. Do what you feel is right. I need my long hair because i'm becoming a pro wrestler and need a look. If I cut it I'll never achieve my dream. So long hair means much more to me than the average guy. I think it goes for musicians too. If they cut their hair they kind of don't look the part, they look like everyday people. So do what you feel you have too to make yourself happy. Just remember the 2 week rule! Phewww, that's enough ranting from me.
Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by Reflective on January 04, 2002 at 21:03:23: Previous Next
In Reply to: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY) posted by Piero on January 04, 2002 at 17:54:38:
Hmmmm, I have found that the longer my hair gets, the more girls flirt with me! What gives over there in Italy? Perhaps you should consider moving to New York!
Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by Shirley on January 04, 2002 at 22:00:39: Previous Next
In Reply to: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY) posted by Piero on January 04, 2002 at 17:54:38:
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: Hey Guys, I think that my long hair is not working to catch chicks as it usually did a couple of years ago....
: I am an Italian guy in the early 20's and my long hair looks very healthy, silky and decent.. same as before, but it seems that girls aren't as interested about my long hair as it was just in 1999, it is very difficult for me to find a girl who is as interested in me anymore. Actually I've forgotten already what does it feels to be in a public place and see how girls start looking at me and flirting.
: Some girl recommended me to cut my hair very short and spike it....
: should I do that?
: Im thinking seriously about it....
: DOes anyone wanna talk about this?
Please don't cut your hair! So many longhaired guys I know have been cutting their hair recently, it seems so sad. All the ones I've talked to about it say they miss their hair and wish they hadn't cut it. If you cut your hair, you will almost certainly regret it.
There ARE girls that like long hair - I know I do. I always notice longhaired guys. I don't think there is anything that can improve a man's appearance more than growing his hair long. I love to see a man with a nice long beautiful mane. If you like your hair long, then keep it long - don't cut it off just because one chick suggested cutting it short and spiking it. There are plenty of girls who would much rather see long hair. Besides, that girl probably suggested that only because it happens to be "in style" at the moment and will change her mind just as soon as fashion changes, but the girls who appreciate the beauty of long hair (instead of blindly going along with whatever is in style) will not change their minds.
In the end, what you do with your hair is (of course) your own decision....but my opinion is you should leave it long.
Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by slacker on January 05, 2002 at 03:16:47: Previous Next
In Reply to: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY) posted by Piero on January 04, 2002 at 17:54:38:
:
: Hey Guys, I think that my long hair is not working to catch chicks as it usually did a couple of years ago....
: I am an Italian guy in the early 20's and my long hair looks very healthy, silky and decent.. same as before, but it seems that girls aren't as interested about my long hair as it was just in 1999, it is very difficult for me to find a girl who is as interested in me anymore. Actually I've forgotten already what does it feels to be in a public place and see how girls start looking at me and flirting.
: Some girl recommended me to cut my hair very short and spike it....
: should I do that?
: Im thinking seriously about it....
: DOes anyone wanna talk about this?
If YOU like your longhair, keep it. If YOU are tired of it, cut it. I can't tell you how many trendy, loser, sellouts I know that dress or act or cut their hair a certain way to be "in" and to look cute for the girls. Don't fall into that trap. Be an individual, have your own brain. Be patient, the women will come. You don't have to look like you're in N'Suck to get girls. You'll be much happier with yourself if you refrain from molding to the general public's dippy little trends. Ok I'm done. phew.. good luck
Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by Longhairlove on January 05, 2002 at 05:35:56: Previous Next
In Reply to: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY) posted by Piero on January 04, 2002 at 17:54:38:
Dude, have you gone to the longhairedmen.com site? Take a look there and you'll a bunch of women that love longhaired guys.
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: Hey Guys, I think that my long hair is not working to catch chicks as it usually did a couple of years ago....
: I am an Italian guy in the early 20's and my long hair looks very healthy, silky and decent.. same as before, but it seems that girls aren't as interested about my long hair as it was just in 1999, it is very difficult for me to find a girl who is as interested in me anymore. Actually I've forgotten already what does it feels to be in a public place and see how girls start looking at me and flirting.
: Some girl recommended me to cut my hair very short and spike it....
: should I do that?
: Im thinking seriously about it....
: DOes anyone wanna talk about this?
Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by Longhaired Boy on January 05, 2002 at 08:45:25: Previous Next
In Reply to: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY) posted by Piero on January 04, 2002 at 17:54:38:
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: Hey Guys, I think that my long hair is not working to catch chicks as it usually did a couple of years ago....
: I am an Italian guy in the early 20's and my long hair looks very healthy, silky and decent.. same as before, but it seems that girls aren't as interested about my long hair as it was just in 1999, it is very difficult for me to find a girl who is as interested in me anymore. Actually I've forgotten already what does it feels to be in a public place and see how girls start looking at me and flirting.
: Some girl recommended me to cut my hair very short and spike it....
: should I do that?
: Im thinking seriously about it....
: DOes anyone wanna talk about this?
Don`t cut your Hair, only because some girls say so ! There will a lot of Girls, that like you and your long Hair ! :) Look, when i have had short hair already, no Girl likes me ! But now, there are some, that would like me ! If you feel good with long hair, than DON'T cut it !
Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by kan on January 06, 2002 at 05:34:37: Previous Next
In Reply to: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY) posted by Piero on January 04, 2002 at 17:54:38:
I agree with all the others that you shouldn't cut it as you might regret later....
Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by j.s. on January 06, 2002 at 08:39:02: Previous Next
In Reply to: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY) posted by Piero on January 04, 2002 at 17:54:38:
why did you grow your hair out in the first place? was it because you wanted to attract women or because you want your hair to be long?
if it was in order to attract women then you should dump the pretext, get the haircut that you want and meet ladies based on who you are instead of who you think they want you to be.
if, on the other hand, you want long hair then do not cut it- changing something that is fundamentally 'you' in order to find your mate will likely leave you feeling that you sacrificed your identity and will place an unreasonable strain on the relationship.
anyway, misrepresenting yourself for the sake of attracting women is dishonest & gets things off on the wrong foot.
Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY)
Posted by Longhairlove on January 07, 2002 at 12:01:51: Previous Next
In Reply to: Re: Nice Long hair but..... (PLEASE REPLY) posted by j.s. on January 06, 2002 at 08:39:02:
this is so right on about your hair and such...
: why did you grow your hair out in the first place? was it because you wanted to attract women or because you want your hair to be long?
: if it was in order to attract women then you should dump the pretext, get the haircut that you want and meet ladies based on who you are instead of who you think they want you to be.
: if, on the other hand, you want long hair then do not cut it- changing something that is fundamentally 'you' in order to find your mate will likely leave you feeling that you sacrificed your identity and will place an unreasonable strain on the relationship.
: anyway, misrepresenting yourself for the sake of attracting women is dishonest & gets things off on the wrong foot.