Who has it worse: shorts or longs?
Posted by Eric on March 23, 2003 at 00:48:12: Previous Next
In your opinion, who has it worse in society: men with long hair or men with short hair? By "worse", I mean who faces the most social ostracism, humiliation, or "peer pressure"? On average, are people with buzzcuts or shaved heads looked down on more than people with long hair?
Twenty-five years ago, in, say, 1978, would you have answered these questions the same way? If not, what changed? Just curious.
Re: Who has it worse: shorts or longs?
Posted by Mark Ellott on March 23, 2003 at 03:59:34: Previous Next
In Reply to: Who has it worse: shorts or longs? posted by Eric on March 23, 2003 at 00:48:12:
I think you'd need to go back a couple of hundred years to see a significant difference in attitudes. Short hair has been the convention since Victorian times and longhairs are seen as odd or rebellious at best.
Where I live, mostly I am left to it, but like most longhairs I have been on the receiving end of unwelcome discrimination. I think you'd have your work cut out finding a shorthair who can say the same...
Re: Who has it worse: shorts or longs?
Posted by Chris on March 24, 2003 at 04:26:08: Previous Next
In Reply to: Re: Who has it worse: shorts or longs? posted by Mark Ellott on March 23, 2003 at 03:59:34:
: I think you'd need to go back a couple of hundred years to see a significant difference in attitudes. Short hair has been the convention since Victorian times and longhairs are seen as odd or rebellious at best.
: Where I live, mostly I am left to it, but like most longhairs I have been on the receiving end of unwelcome discrimination. I think you'd have your work cut out finding a shorthair who can say the same...
"Your hair is too short! Are you ever going to let it grow!?" Good luck hearing that anytime soon...
Re: Who has it worse: shorts or longs?
Posted by Mark Ellott on March 24, 2003 at 13:21:04: Previous Next
In Reply to: Re: Who has it worse: shorts or longs? posted by Chris on March 24, 2003 at 04:26:08:
: "Your hair is too short! Are you ever going to let it grow!?" Good luck hearing that anytime soon...
Dream on.... :¬)
Re: Who has it worse: shorts or longs?
Posted by Devon on March 26, 2003 at 15:38:32: Previous Next
In Reply to: Re: Who has it worse: shorts or longs? posted by Chris on March 24, 2003 at 04:26:08:
: "Your hair is too short! Are you ever going to let it grow!?" Good luck hearing that anytime soon...
Unless you join a rockband maybe?
Re: Who has it worse: shorts or longs?
Posted by Golgotha on March 23, 2003 at 17:21:58: Previous Next
In Reply to: Who has it worse: shorts or longs? posted by Eric on March 23, 2003 at 00:48:12:
: In your opinion, who has it worse in society: men with long hair or men with short hair? By "worse", I mean who faces the most social ostracism, humiliation, or "peer pressure"? On average, are people with buzzcuts or shaved heads looked down on more than people with long hair?
: Twenty-five years ago, in, say, 1978, would you have answered these questions the same way? If not, what changed? Just curious.
I think it's much worse for long haired men, in fact, much MUCH worse! I think men with shaved heads/buzzcuts are becoming more and more accepted, due mostly to societal laziness and trends (Vin Diesel anybody?) as well as the gradual decline of the Neo-Nazi movement (most people no longer associate shaved heads with Nazism, unless it's obvious). I'm constantly harassed by co-workers, family members and strangers, and I don't even consider my hair long yet! If you can find any "baldie" or short hair who faces the same discrimination based only on hair length, I'd call you a liar!
Re: Who has it worse: shorts or longs?
Posted by Mark on March 24, 2003 at 14:45:00: Previous Next
In Reply to: Who has it worse: shorts or longs? posted by Eric on March 23, 2003 at 00:48:12:
I come from the UK, and I think things are changing over here. The only predudice I ever got was mainly from my Mum while I was in the awkward stage, but since I reached a nice ponytail, people either compliment it or pass no comment. Over here we seem to be able to go about our own business without too much external influence. I think a shaved head is probably thought of as worse here - certainly where I come from (near Birmingham). Over the last year or so I have also been seeing a much greater number of guys with long hair, and male models in shop windows with longer hairstyles. I think things are changing for the better here.
Re: Who has it worse: shorts or longs?
Posted by Brian D. Cain on March 25, 2003 at 12:28:34: Previous Next
In Reply to: Who has it worse: shorts or longs? posted by Eric on March 23, 2003 at 00:48:12:
: In your opinion, who has it worse in society: men with long hair or men with short hair? By "worse", I mean who faces the most social ostracism, humiliation, or "peer pressure"? On average, are people with buzzcuts or shaved heads looked down on more than people with long hair?
: Twenty-five years ago, in, say, 1978, would you have answered these questions the same way? If not, what changed? Just curious.
Nowadays, definitely men with long hair.
B
Re: Who has it worse: shorts or longs?
Posted by Chris on March 25, 2003 at 20:53:23: Previous Next
In Reply to: Who has it worse: shorts or longs? posted by Eric on March 23, 2003 at 00:48:12:
: In your opinion, who has it worse in society: men with long hair or men with short hair? By "worse", I mean who faces the most social ostracism, humiliation, or "peer pressure"? On average, are people with buzzcuts or shaved heads looked down on more than people with long hair?
: Twenty-five years ago, in, say, 1978, would you have answered these questions the same way? If not, what changed? Just curious.
That's obvious: short hairs. You don't even have to think about that one. In '78, yes, there was a larger ratio of longhairs to shorthairs than now, but short hair has always been socially accepted, at least in America in the 20th century.