Do girls like long hair guys?
Posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23: Previous Next
Hello again.
Do you know if long haired guys attract girls or push them away? From my experience id say they dont like long hair. But what are your experinces, good/bad/if any?
And if there are any girls prowling this board, what do you think of long haired guys? or the grunge style of dress, hair and attitude?
Thanx
Depends on the girl
Posted by ManeMusic on October 31, 2001 at 16:46:56: Previous Next
In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23:
Depends on the girl, duh. Some do, some don't. Your odds are better if your long hair is clean & neat, if you have a winning personality, are a gentleman, are rich, etc.
Chris
Re: Depends on the girl
Posted by KC on October 31, 2001 at 18:58:07: Previous Next
In Reply to: Depends on the girl posted by ManeMusic on October 31, 2001 at 16:46:56:
Yup, especially the "rich" part. Not really - just clean, neat, Mr. Personality - that'll do it. Definitely no tte "grunge" look - today that style is relegated basically to middle school age boys (really still children) trying to "find" themselves.
Re: Do girls like long hair guys?
Posted by Erin on October 31, 2001 at 18:20:03: Previous Next
In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23:
I personally find long haired guys very attractive (that's an understatement..). However, the hair has to be clean (I don't like dirty guys.)
-Erin, long-time lurker :)
: And if there are any girls prowling this board, what do you think of long haired guys? or the grunge style of dress, hair and attitude?
: Thanx
Re: Do girls like long hair guys?
Posted by GOP on October 31, 2001 at 23:48:44: Previous Next
In Reply to: Re: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by Erin on October 31, 2001 at 18:20:03:
>(I don't like dirty guys.)
Guess that eliminates all polititcians.
Re: Do girls like long hair guys?
Posted by AJ on November 01, 2001 at 08:44:01: Previous Next
In Reply to: Re: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by GOP on October 31, 2001 at 23:48:44:
Except the ones with clean, long hair (which is only a handful, I imagine... I have seen a few)!
Re: Do girls like long hair guys?
Posted by Tarnisha on November 01, 2001 at 15:51:24: Previous Next
In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23:
Curls are an added bonus, but dreds are disgusting. Straight is fine though -one of the cutest guys I know has waist long straight brown hair. I think he is personally responcible for at least 50 girls sticking with our LARP of the the last few years. I make sure to tell guys how awsome thier hair looks and that they should never cut it -ever. Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23: Depends on the scene you are in. Not trying to speak for other girls here, but I think it's save to say that most girls in the Metal and Grunge scene like guys with long hair. Unfortunately, most guys prefer to sport the macho look with shaved heads and baggy pants.... sigh! At least that's the case in the Austrian underground. Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Re: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by Karo on November 01, 2001 at 18:37:21: : You mean the Los Angeles gang banger look has finally reached the Austrian underground? How dreadful. Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Re: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by Fashion Police on November 02, 2001 at 00:15:13: Yeah, it's disgusting. Most guys here look like clones. There are very few men who put a little effort in styling. Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23: Hello, I never dated guys with short hair, and I've been married to a man with long hair for 20 years. Men with long hair are more passionate, and imaginative. Men with long hair do have a tendency to be vain. Guys with short hair, well, wind them up and watch them fit into what ever clique they belong to. Short hairs are not bothered by their lack of originality. Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Re: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by Delphi on November 01, 2001 at 20:24:51: : Hello, : I never dated guys with short hair, and I've been married to a man with long hair for 20 years. Men with long hair are more passionate, and imaginative. Men with long hair do have a tendency to be vain. Guys with short hair, well, wind them up and watch them fit into what ever clique they belong to. Short hairs are not bothered by their lack of originality. I'm sorry, but why dont other people complain about posts like these? I hear people whining about being segrigated or of people assuming how you are just becuase of your hair style. THIS POST IS NO DIFFERENT. You just CANT go and say all guys with long hair can be wound up fit into a cliche, and long haired guys are passionate, short haired guys aren't, they're vain, etc. There are MANY other ways to express yourself than your hair, and people that judge "shorthairs" like this are just as bad as people that judge "longhairs". If you ask me, this particular woman has developed what we call a FETISH for long haired men and has set it in her mind that they are mentally better people. Please people, think about what you are you are saying and thinking. Let's treat EVERYONE equal. Justin Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Re: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by Justin on November 07, 2001 at 20:54:01: : : Hello, : : I never dated guys with short hair, and I've been married to a man with long hair for 20 years. Men with long hair are more passionate, and imaginative. Men with long hair do have a tendency to be vain. Guys with short hair, well, wind them up and watch them fit into what ever clique they belong to. Short hairs are not bothered by their lack of originality. : I'm sorry, but why dont other people complain about posts like these? I hear people whining about being segrigated or of people assuming how you are just becuase of your hair style. THIS POST IS NO DIFFERENT. You just CANT go and say all guys with long hair can be wound up fit into a cliche, and long haired guys are passionate, short haired guys aren't, they're vain, etc. There are MANY other ways to express yourself than your hair, and people that judge "shorthairs" like this are just as bad as people that judge "longhairs". If you ask me, this particular woman has developed what we call a FETISH for long haired men and has set it in her mind that they are mentally better people. Please people, think about what you are you are saying and thinking. Let's treat EVERYONE equal. : Justin So if I like Pepsi better than Coke then I have a Pepsi FETISH? Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23: James, I'm afraid you're not going to get a lot of useful information What do YOU like? Grow your hair long and you'll find the girls Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23: hey there Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23: From my perspective, the obvious admiration from women is one of the best things about having long hair! Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23: : Hello again. : Do you know if long haired guys attract girls or push them away? From my experience id say they dont like long hair. But what are your experinces, good/bad/if any? : And if there are any girls prowling this board, what do you think of long haired guys? or the grunge style of dress, hair and attitude? : Thanx >>>>I don't feel especially liked in KY. right now. A few seem obsessed with it, but most seemingly refuse to associate with me. A weird thing-I think I'll write a seperate post about it-I seem to get more attention/compliments when I look filthy. Are they being sarcastic? The bad thing-if I look like crap, I probably feel like crap, and probably don't want to be bothered! Re: Also... In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23: : Hello again. : Do you know if long haired guys attract girls or push them away? From my experience id say they dont like long hair. But what are your experinces, good/bad/if any? : And if there are any girls prowling this board, what do you think of long haired guys? or the grunge style of dress, hair and attitude? : Thanx >>>>>>>>>Also, have you been here yet?(link at bottom) Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23: If you think about it, there are many reasons for girls to like guys with long hair. Guys in the military, police, bankers, firemen, most all have short hair. They are conservative and for many women boring. Guys with long hair risk their job in terms of promotions, image, etc. Women are often put down, told how to dress or not dress for work. They see men with long hair as taking a chance, asserting themselves. Men who assert themselves are chance takers and interesting. I am middle aged and started growing my hair a year ago. No guys in the office like it or have said anything positive. On the other hand only one woman liked short hair. The other 30 women in the office like long hair and at least one of them each day says something positive. All the women, without exception, say don't put it in a pony tail. I don'tt know why they said it but they say it. Some of the women will say in a commaniding voice, "Get a hiarcut," but laugh and then say they like my long hair. But remember, when a guy says he doesn't like your long hair, look at his hair, it is short, isn't it? Re: Do girls like long hair guys? In Reply to: Do girls like long hair guys? posted by James on October 31, 2001 at 15:58:23: Hi. Love this board. From my experience, I guess it all depends on each girl. I think automatically guys with long hair attract girls that may want temporary hookups or have a fetish for longhair on guys. (In general, perhaps no meaningful relationships). Ultimately many girls equate longhair with "not a career-oriented guy" since most well paying careers require short hair, etc. So right away if girls figure they(guys) can't have a well paying job, then why bother dating them, or better yet, fear showing them to their parents,etc. 1) A lot of "bbw" middle aged woman seem to be obsessed with skinny long haired guys. That is just some of my preliminary findings. Ofcourse if I was rich and famous, I'm sure girls would be running to me. That's just how women think and operate. So, are there girls that like guys with longhair? Sure! The problem is finding the girls that you'd want to be with. I'm sure I probably offended some girls with this but I just felt I had to comment. I have longhair for about 2 years now (mine grew real fast) and this is just what I experienced. Girls would prefer to go with short haired guys cause it may be the "pc" thing to do or they are obsessed with N' Sync. So I guess you may ask, "Well, why not cut your hair then?" Simple. I love the way I look now and although I sometimes feel like cutting it, just to get girls interested in me, I know I'd hate it and just grow it back again. I've done it twice already. LOL. Feel free to email me back with comments at alexander@alexanderthepoet.com
Personally, long hair is high on my cuteness checklist.
If its long enough to all fit in a pony tail -Sweet!
If its swinging near below mid-back....
A horror story: I have was seriously checking out a guy who was walking away from me because his hair was so nice from the back
Tarnisha
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Posted by LongHairLover on November 02, 2001 at 08:24:38: Previous Next
with questions like that. Right now, judging that most young men
are heterosexual and have short hair, there have to be a lot of girls
who like short hair. Probably a majority. (Except on this forum,
of course.)
who like it that way.
Posted by Meg on November 03, 2001 at 12:41:24: Previous Next
i think that guys with long hair are alot hotter than guyz with short. most girlz would agree w/ me cuz you cant run yer hands through short...but just make sure it looks clean, and isnt all snarly, cuz ya know, thats gross!
love ya!
meg
Posted by Reflective on November 03, 2001 at 21:29:25: Previous Next
Posted by Slack on November 05, 2001 at 17:14:24: Previous Next
I mean I go out all clean and groomed, dressed pleasantly, and I'm ignored. I go out looking greasy, wearing old work clothes, looking kind of nasty-and here they come.
Posted by Slack on November 07, 2001 at 14:21:26: Previous Next
http://www.longhairedmen.com/main.html
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Posted by Alexander The Poet on November 13, 2001 at 13:55:44: Previous Next
I hope I am wrong but in my experience this is what I have learned:
2) Your typical "bar fixture white trash" women are into it. You know, the type that live in a bar and make it a religion to see local bands on a nightly basis and smell like Jack Daniels.
3) Most "nice girls" that I'd love to get to know are too superficial and only want short haired guys cause it seems to be "the norm". They view longhaired guys as unclean and evil/bad guys,etc.